•It is important to know that smoking is not just a habit it is an addiction. It's likely that your friend or family member wants you to stop smoking. Make sure you tell them that you want them to stop because if they don't they might get cancer. Let them know that it makes you scared. You are afraid they will get sick and also get you sick from the second hand smoke. When that person is not ready to quit yet, you might make a deal with them. You might say that you can do the dishes for three weeks if they stop smoking.